If given the opportunity to live in any period other than your own and the future, what would it be?
i don't have a good relationship with my mother. in fact i don't believe she loves me. i've felt like this since i was about 8... maybe as early as 7.... my biggest fear has always been that my kids will feel the same way about me as i do about my mother. scares me a lot. bc i've always wanted one of those unshakable immovable bonds with my children. i live with my mother now... bc of my illness she just walked in... i spoke. she just looked at me and walked in her room. smh. my life is a lot.
Love your blog and your insightful Twitter commentary on the incredibly racist Psychology Today articlle. Following.
i meant to send this to you the other day when i saw the picture of your dad. i have been rocking with you for a while... since thatbitch.com. since you found out you were pregnant with beans. and i remember how you so vividly wanted to be the type of parent to beans that your dad was for you. that you wanted her to live a fulfilled childhood and such. i was amazed by how much you inspired me... i have seen you go through so many ups and downs and i am still amazed by your grace... and tenacity... and audacity to be who you are despite of anything that comes your way. your father is looking down on one of his most precious greatest creations and smiling. i love you.. i love you like i love my blood sisters. i pray for your happiness... and prosperity. you're forever in my heart huny bunches of goodness...
*hug* (in the most gangsterly way possible). One day soon, I'll be up in NYC to give you a real G hug...it'll leave bruises and shit.
hello huny - just wanted to let you know you still inspire and astound me every day. i have been a huge fan and a follower since i was about 13... i am going to be 25 in october. not joking, i've been following your writing, design, and everything else for years. i lost you for a while and am so happy to have found you back here on tumblr. thatbitch was one of my huge inspirations as a young lady, you let me know in a strange time that it was okay to be different, bisexual, outspoken, opinionated, and flashy. your attitude has changed a bit since then and you seem to have aged very gracefully yet still kept your trademark spunk and bite. i love it, love it, love it and couldn't be happier for you that you are still fighting the good fight and keeping your smile on your face. thanks for being a great role model in this world of weak people with sour minds. xxx rachel
I didn't go that far. I just personally loathe seeing women in Jordans specifically. Decided to throw that in there.
Usually when I get trigged I fall apart. I have a melt down and say things to make sure the person that triggered my emotions feels worst than dirt. However its normal to have a reaction when something triggers you. What I've grown to understand is when something triggers you thats when you should be quiet. Just relax. Settle down. Try to find a solution and move on as quickly as possible. Thats easy to say and hard to do but thats what I find most effective. Taking yourself out of the situation physically, mentally and emotionally works. Come back to the situation when you're ready. Sometimes you win by saying nothing.
Sooo I'm @free2be_MSB on twitter...ya know, fellow Janet STAN? so yeah just dropping a note to say that I love following you on here and on twitter annnnd I'm meeting Janet TOMORROW!!! Ahhh! :)
hey girl, just wanted to let you know i followed you way back in your thatbitch days. you and a lot of the old school bloggers really inspired me to get into webdesign. i am forever grateful. nice to see you doing well. :)
I'm sarah huny. I'm an artist and designer in NYC and I've a fondness for fashion, women and gangsterly shit. That is basically what I've curated here; an aesthetic (and sometimes aural) representation of what inspires and arouses me.